By Tiffani Belvins
Ladies, how many of you are willing to admit that sometimes you want a quickie to help you release the stress of the day? A few years ago, I never would have admitted that to anyone but my girlfriends but we’re friends, right?
Let’s have some girl talk!
Let's take a walk through a long day of your "hustle".
BEGIN THE DAY
1) You wake up
2) get the kids up and dressed...
3) get breakfast ready...
4) get the kids to school...
5) go to work,
6) come home...
7) do homework with the kids...
8) make dinner...
9) get the kids in the showers and to bed...
10) work on your own business
REPEAT
Are you exhausted? Do you feel the stress and overwhelm of juggling all your roles? Hell, I do!
And I'm going to let you in on a little secret. Friend to friend. Girl boss to girl boss. The solution to "role fatigue" is the quickie you have after looking at your love (or like...we don't judge) in the eyes and saying, "I want you right now."
After you take them by the hand and lead them to the space you've designated for the trist of the day, commence to telling them exactly what you want. Why? I'm glad you asked!
A) You're a Queen at your core! All roles aside, you're a beautiful woman who deserves the genuine pleasure being in complete control of one's satisfaction.
B) You deserve instant gratification for being a boss! Being an entrepreneur sometimes means hours of work and constant action with a delayed reward. The instant gratification of initiating a wild and pleasurable quickie will boost your "sexual esteem".
C) There are health benefits! Most days for most women don't include the gym. I don't have to tell you that safe and consensual sex increases your heart rate and mimics a light to moderate cardio workout depending on how you "get down."
D) We want what we want! We get to enjoy sex as much as men do without apology. Why should they get to have all the fun of initiating?
Once you've had your way and your quickie for the day allow your shower to wash that steamy love scene away and the euphoria of the experience to put you right to bed. The more spontaneous the better for you, your love, and your stress level.
Take charge in the board room and the bedroom. Tell them you want it hard and fast!
I dare you...
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